I’m Tyler Mafi (he/him) - a gay, trans, multicultural therapist currently practicing in NYC.
I named my practice Mafi Psychotherapy to honor my last name, a symbol of my paternal lineage from Tonga. My experience being raised in a multicultural, mixed family shapes my understanding of the world and my approach to therapy. To me, the Mafi name reflects all that is passed down through generations - the pain, resilience, joy, trauma, and healing.
The cultures and communities we grow up within play a pivotal role in our development. They shape our beliefs, our experiences, and our understanding of the world and ourselves. However, the things we learn growing up don’t always align with our intuitive values. In my experience, I’ve learned that true authenticity comes when we shed outdated beliefs we were told to believe, and live by our values and intuition.
I support my clients in getting to know themselves, finding emotional freedom, and getting into the driver’s seat of their own life. I cultivate a therapy space where we explore mental health in the context of a client’s unique cultural background, positionality, and community.
When I’m not in the therapist chair, I’m probably rewatching my favorite horror films, learning choreography from a pop music video, reading a mystery novel, or enjoying quality time with my partner and our senior pup, Molly.
My Therapeutic Approach
Let’s get existential!
In my professional and personal life, I’ve always been interested in exploring the big, complex existential questions we all experience as human beings.
Who am I?
What is my purpose?
What do I want from my life?
We are often confronted with uncertainty of our existence - whether it’s starting a career, ending a relationship, starting a gender journey, or questioning what choice to make. As nice as it would be, there’s no guidebook to life telling us what’s right. And even if there was, would it be a guidebook we’d want to follow?
Sitting with the existential questions can be a scary and daunting process, and a lot of times we just don’t want to go there. There are some times in life when we are faced with these questions and we get to choose how we meet them. Bravely choosing to dive into the unknown can be terrifying, AND it can help us move in the direction of living a life that we want to live.
This is the approach I bring into my work as a therapist. I’m here to support you as we dive into the existential - together.
Credentials
Licensed Mental Health Counselor | New York, #013941
Masters in Mental Health Counseling | Fordham University 2021
BA in Anthropology | Saint Mary’s College of California 2017
Continuing Education
Treating Trauma with Chairwork and Parts Work | February 2025
Reiki Level 1 for Psychotherapists | October 2025
Foundations of CBT for Psychosis | January 2022