I’m Tyler Mafi (he/him)
I am a queer, trans, multicultural psychotherapist who came to NYC by way of sunny SoCal.
I named my practice Mafi Psychotherapy to honor my last name, a symbol of my paternal lineage from Tonga. My experience being raised in a multicultural, mixed family shapes my understanding of the world and my approach to therapy. To me, the Mafi name reflects all that is passed down through generations - the pain, resilience, joy, trauma, and healing.
The cultures and communities we grow up within play a pivotal role in our development, influencing our beliefs, our experiences, and our understanding of the world and ourselves. However, these beliefs don’t always align with our intuitive values. In my experience, true authenticity comes about by shedding any outdated beliefs, and acting in accordance with the values we wish to live by.
I support my clients in getting to know themselves, connecting with their intuition, finding emotional freedom, and moving towards greater alignment in life. I aim to create a space where individuals can explore their mental health in the context of their own unique cultural background, positionality, and community connections.
In my spare time, you can find me enjoying an iced oat latte, rewatching my favorite horror films, reading a mystery novel, and enjoying quality time with my senior pup, Molly.
THERAPEUTIC APPROACH
PSYCHODYNAMIC
Psychodynamic therapy helps clients gain insight into the underlying thoughts, feelings, and past wounds that are influencing undesired current behaviors and relationship patterns. This awareness can allow for important healing of past wounds still impacting us, and help to avoid reenacting harmful patterns.
NARRATIVE
Narrative therapy helps us reframe and re-author the stories we tell about ourselves. This therapeutic approach empowers clients to recognize their strengths, take an active role as the author of their own story, and rewrite their personal narratives in ways that support growth, healing, and resilience.
EXISTENTIAL
Existential therapy helps clients explore the deeper questions of life. By confronting the challenges and uncertainties of existence, it helps us take responsibility for our choices and create a life that reflects our true values. By embracing personal freedom and authenticity, we can overcome feelings of despair or confusion and move toward greater self-awareness, purpose, and fulfillment.
BACKGROUND
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Masters in Mental Health Counseling from Fordham University - 2019-2021
Bachelors in Cultural Anthropology from Saint Mary's College of California - 2013-2017
Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the state of New York - License No. 013941
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Reiki Level 1 for Psychotherapists - 2024
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Psychotherapist at Intuitive Healing Psychotherapy - 2021-2023
Attachment Therapist at Group Attachment-Based Intervention (GABI) Manhattan - 2020-2021